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How a Death Doula Handles the Death of Her Soul Dog
Even as a death doula, nothing prepared me for this.
Beth Montgomery
Apr 302 min read


5 Signs You’re Meant to Be a Death Doula
5 Signs You’re Meant to Be a Death Doula
What it means, why it matters, and how to know if this path is calling you.
Beth Montgomery
Apr 233 min read


What a Good Death Actually Looks Like
A good death isn’t about perfection. It’s about presence.
Beth Montgomery
Apr 162 min read


My Dog Is Dying… Here’s How I’m Coping
This is what we call anticipatory grief—the emotional process of grieving someone before they die. It’s real. It’s valid. And it can feel just as heavy as the grief that comes after.
Beth Montgomery
Apr 103 min read


5 Life Lessons from Ms G — A Death Doula’s Reflection
I’ve met a lot of people at the end of their lives. But every now and then, someone shows up and stays with you long after they’ve gone.
Beth Montgomery
Apr 22 min read


Grief in the Golden Years: Navigating Loss Together
We’re going to cover three key areas in this blog that I also teach in my workshops relating to grief and support.
Beth Montgomery
Mar 263 min read


The Hidden Costs of Dying (And How to Avoid Them)
Dying is Expensive. And the Hidden Fees? Even Worse.
Beth Montgomery
Mar 192 min read


The Unexpected Ways Grief Shows Up in Your Body
What most people don’t realize is that grief isn’t just emotional—it’s physical, mental, and even spiritual.
Beth Montgomery
Mar 124 min read


What is Death Doula Training? Here’s What You Need to Know
Death doula training is all about learning how to support the dying and their loved ones through the end-of-life process.
Beth Montgomery
Mar 53 min read


How Trauma Led Me to My Calling as a Death Doula
Trauma can be a catalyst for change, and in 2015, I experienced a loss that changed the entire trajectory of my life.
Beth Montgomery
Feb 262 min read


How to Become a Death Doula: Your Guide to Starting This Sacred Work
A Death Doula (also called an End-of-Life Doula) provides non-medical, holistic support to the dying and their loved ones.
Beth Montgomery
Feb 192 min read


The Sticker Shock of Dying (and How to Avoid It)
Dying is Expensive. But It Doesn’t Have to Be.
Here’s a little reality check: The average funeral costs as much as a used car.
Beth Montgomery
Feb 132 min read


Living Authentically: The Power of Planning Before Crisis Hits
Living authentically means making intentional choices while you still have the power to do so.
Beth Montgomery
Feb 52 min read


Let’s Talk About Guilt (Spoiler: You Don’t Have to Carry It Forever)
Let’s start here: guilt isn’t inherently bad. It’s actually a pretty normal human emotion.
Beth Montgomery
Jan 233 min read


Disenfranchised Grief: What It Is, How It Happens, and What We Can Do
Disenfranchised grief is when you feel sad about a loss that other people don’t seem to understand or accept.
Beth Montgomery
Jan 154 min read


What Happens When You’re a Caretaker but There’s No Inheritance Plan?
Without a will or any legal paperwork, many families face probate court, which is a legal process to sort out the estate.
Beth Montgomery
Jan 93 min read


What Are Green Burials? A Simple, Earth-Friendly Way to Say Goodbye
Choosing a green burial isn’t just about what happens when we die; it’s a reflection of how we choose to live.
Beth Montgomery
Jan 22 min read


Navigating Grief During the Holidays
Grief feels especially loud right now. It’s like the lights, the music, the constant cheer—it all shines a spotlight on what’s missing.
Beth Montgomery
Dec 25, 20242 min read


How to Have “The Talk” About End-of-Life Plans Without Everyone Running for the Hills
Let’s be honest: talking to your parents about their end-of-life plans isn’t the dinner table chat anyone’s dying to have (pun intended).
Beth Montgomery
Dec 18, 20242 min read


Grieving During the Holidays: How to Navigate the Pain
Grief doesn’t come with a rulebook, and it certainly doesn’t take time off for the holidays.
Beth Montgomery
Dec 11, 20243 min read
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