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Beth Montgomery
Jan 154 min read
Disenfranchised Grief: What It Is, How It Happens, and What We Can Do
Disenfranchised grief is when you feel sad about a loss that other people don’t seem to understand or accept.
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Beth Montgomery
Jan 93 min read
What Happens When You’re a Caretaker but There’s No Inheritance Plan?
Without a will or any legal paperwork, many families face probate court, which is a legal process to sort out the estate.
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Beth Montgomery
Jan 22 min read
What Are Green Burials? A Simple, Earth-Friendly Way to Say Goodbye
Choosing a green burial isn’t just about what happens when we die; it’s a reflection of how we choose to live.
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Beth Montgomery
Dec 25, 20242 min read
Navigating Grief During the Holidays
Grief feels especially loud right now. It’s like the lights, the music, the constant cheer—it all shines a spotlight on what’s missing.
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Beth Montgomery
Dec 18, 20242 min read
How to Have “The Talk” About End-of-Life Plans Without Everyone Running for the Hills
Let’s be honest: talking to your parents about their end-of-life plans isn’t the dinner table chat anyone’s dying to have (pun intended).
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Beth Montgomery
Dec 11, 20243 min read
Grieving During the Holidays: How to Navigate the Pain
Grief doesn’t come with a rulebook, and it certainly doesn’t take time off for the holidays.
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Beth Montgomery
Dec 4, 20242 min read
Do It Before You're Dead: Why Planning for Death Lets You Truly Live
Planning for death might sound grim, but it’s the most freeing thing you’ll ever do—and here’s why.
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Beth Montgomery
Nov 27, 20243 min read
Live Fully: Life-Changing Lessons from a Death Doula
So, what can death teach us about life? Here’s what I’ve learned.
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Beth Montgomery
Nov 20, 20243 min read
What Is a Death Doula and How Can They Help?
Most people are completely unprepared when death arrives—whether it’s their own or someone they love. That’s where a death doula comes in.
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Beth Montgomery
Nov 13, 20243 min read
Grief Is More Than Losing a Loved One: How Life Changes Bring Unexpected Waves of Grief
Grief isn’t just about losing someone; it’s about any kind of loss or change that impacts our lives.
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Beth Montgomery
Nov 6, 20245 min read
Financial Preparation for End-of-Life: Compassionate Guidance from a Death Doula
This isn’t just about money; it’s about freeing up emotional space for those we care about so they can focus on healing and remembering.
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Beth Montgomery
Oct 30, 20245 min read
Financial Preparation for End-of-Life: Insights from a Death Doula
Facing the reality of end-of-life planning is difficult for many, and financial preparation is often one of the most daunting aspects.
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Beth Montgomery
Oct 23, 20244 min read
How Facing Mortality Helps You Live More Fully Every Day
The idea might sound counterintuitive, but as a holistic death doula, facing the reality of death can unlock a deeper, more meaningful life.
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Beth Montgomery
Oct 16, 20244 min read
Breaking the Silence: How to Build a Safe Space for Honest Conversations About Death
Talking about death and dying is something that many people find uncomfortable, even though it's one of the most natural parts of life.
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Beth Montgomery
Oct 9, 20243 min read
Say Yes Now: How Embracing Life Leads to Fewer Regrets at the End
When it comes to end-of-life reflections, one common theme echoes through the stories of those I’ve sat with—"I wish I had said yes more."
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Beth Montgomery
Oct 2, 20244 min read
Understanding Multiple Losses: You’re Not Alone
Multiple losses happen when you experience several losses in a short time.
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Beth Montgomery
Sep 25, 20244 min read
Supporting Autonomy: Honoring Your Loved One’s Choices at the End of Life
Whether it’s deciding on caregiving roles, healthcare choices, or even end-of-life plans, we often fall into the trap of assuming...
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Beth Montgomery
Sep 18, 20243 min read
Embracing the Glimmer of Hope Amidst Grief
From my experience as a death doula, I’ve learned that embracing these small pockets of light is crucial to finding our way forward.
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Beth Montgomery
Sep 11, 20242 min read
Embracing Anticipatory Grief and Finding Meaning in the Moment
Anticipatory grief is like sitting in the waiting room of loss. You can see what’s coming, but you’re not quite there yet.
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Beth Montgomery
Sep 4, 20242 min read
The Power of Planning: How Getting Your Living Will on Paper Frees Your Spirit
Let’s be honest, who’s really jumping out of bed in the morning, excited to tackle their Advanced Care Directives or Living Will? Yeah,
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